That is correct.

I don't understand why people just can't let things be. It really isn't that big of a deal if one person wants something but another person wants something else. I don't see why a comprimise can't be made.

Instead, they post at The Curia. Does posting that you agree with everything one person says, then going behind everything in grams and actually telling the truth make it better?

I don't think so. Unfortunately, that only makes matters worse. You can't bottle up emotions and expect to be ok. You have to express feelings when you dont agree with them.